The Office; 2.11 ‘Booze Cruise’
Pam: It’s getting kind of rowdy down there.
Jim: Yeah. Darryl! Darryl! Darryl!
Pam: Sometimes I just don’t get Roy.
Jim: Well…
Pam: I mean, I don’t know. So… what’s it like dating a cheerleader?
Jim: Oh, um… [silence]
Pam: I’m cold.
I wrote the paragraph below years ago, and this scene haunts me as if this exact moment has happened to me, and in small ways it has. It was not the perfect show, but neither was every workplace I’ve ever had. Yet I remember how good and kind my co-workers were, how inspiring my bosses could be, and how working with others was more satisfying than working alone.
Have I ever written about one of my favorite tv moments ever? And it’s not because of this dialogue, it’s because of the 20 freaking seconds of silence (I counted it!) and looks shared between these two. Ten seconds of awkward silence in real world time is long enough, but 20 seconds?! You’re using up primetime air right here, especially for a 21 minute show…You know how human and real this moment is, how we’ve all experienced it, trying to find the words to say to someone and not quite getting there. More moments like this, TV, more moments like this.

